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Japan + Thailand: 5 Take-Aways

Over the holidays we took a big trip – 26 days in Japan and Thailand–with our two boys who are in college.  Sebbie’s a senior and Jude is a freshman.  This is the only year where their holiday breaks overlap, so it was now or never…and we are so glad we went!  

A quick overview: 

  • 8 days in Japan (Tokyo, Shibu Onsen, Kyoto, Osaka)
  • 7 days on the island of Koh Phi Phi off the coast of Phuket, Thailand
  • 10-day tour from Bangkok to Chiang Mai, with 4 days trekking to visit the Hill Tribes

Everyone has been asking me what I liked best and I realize the answer can be applied to almost any destination.

Here are my top 5:

1.  Going for 26 days – I know this is not easy for Americans with corporate jobs but I realized that on ~day 10, I was truly living in the present…plus we’d all got over our jet lag! The strong dollar currently goes far in Asia, making dining, lodging, and shopping more affordable than doing a similar trip in the U.S.

2.  Taking a tour:  While we planned the Japan and Koh Phi Phi portions ourselves, having a tour group take over the Bangkok to Chiang Mai part was fantastic.  Meeting people from all over the world made me feel like I was in my 20s backpacking again.  Our group of sixteen ranged in age from 19 to 61 with a number of solo travelers in their 20s-50s…one fellow American with Australians, Swiss, Irish, British, and Canadians.

3.  Meeting locals:  Meeting the Japanese is a lot easier in the smaller towns. We loved getting out of urban Japan to visit Shibu Onsen in the Japanese Alps, where we bathed in the public geothermal baths (naked! with the Japanese!), and visited Izakayas (Japanese pubs) playing American 70s music. On Christmas Day, we visited Universal Studios Osaka and rode Demon Slayer with young Japanese couples who were “Christmas Dating”…it’s a thing. We spent NYE, dancing on a beach with Thai locals and meeting tourists from all over the world.  We took the local overnight train to Chiang Mai.  And best of all, we stayed with local families in huts in Northern Thailand. 

4.  The food:  Forget touristy restaurants, we are talking street vendors and small restaurants and noodle shops – Udon, Yakiniku (grill your own Wagyu beef) and Ramen in Japan;  Thai curries, Khao Soi, and Mango Sticky Rice in Thailand.  I lost 6 pounds from so much soup!

5. Adventure – Hiking to see the Japanese Snow Monkeys, scuba diving and snorkeling with black tip reef sharks, trekking for 4-6 hours per day from hill town to hill town, taking local boats and trains, boating through a cave, hiking up waterfalls, and watching the sunrise over the mountains (from the one coffee shop with a cappuccino maker in Northern Thailand) were some major highlights. 

If you are watching the new season of The White Lotus – this is not that trip, but it truly was unforgettable.  Feel free to reach out if you are planning a visit and want to know more.  

Delamar West Hartford Weddings: A Stylish Venue for Your CT Event


We’ve loved calling West Hartford home, and the opening of Delamar West Hartford in 2017 was a welcome addition for weddings and celebrations. Just a short distance from our photography studio, the Delamar is one of our favorite venues to photograph weddings.

Why Choose Delamar West Hartford for Your Wedding

Chic Downtown Vibe with so much to Explore
Delamar West Hartford is conveniently located in Blue Back Square and just across from West Hartford Center. Your out-of-town guests will love the walk-able neighborhood, with so many great restaurants, boutiques and attractions right outside your door. Whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or a larger celebration, the venue offers a variety of spaces that suit your style.

Distinctive Spaces and Features
From the sleek, contemporary interiors to the expansive garden lawn, every corner of Delamar makes a beautiful backdrop for your wedding photos. The patio and lawn are the perfect place for a festive cocktail party, with the outdoor fireplace adding a warm touch—ideal for evening celebrations.

The large Mystic Ballroom can be divided for indoor ceremonies or smaller weddings. And the lawn is ideal for outdoor ceremonies or adding a tent for your reception.

The bridal suite shines as a getting-ready spot, with a balcony overlooking the grounds, and the billiards room is the perfect gathering place for groomsmen.

Delamar West Hartford also features several private event spaces for rehearsal dinners and other small celebrations as well.

Exceptional Dining at Artisan Restaurant…and more
Known for its farm-to-table cuisine, Artisan restaurant located at Delamar West Hartford, excels in catering for your wedding and offers your guests a stylish bar and eatery for their stay in West Hartford.
And don’t forget the Spa at Delamar West Hartford…where you and your guests can relax and rejuvenate with a massage!

Ready to start planning? Contact us today to learn more about our wedding photography services in Connecticut and beyond.

How to Prepare for Your Headshot or Professional Business Portrait

Here’s how to prepare for your headshot session to ensure you look your best. At IRIS Photography and our West Hartford Center studio, we specialize in creating headshots and professional portraits that help you make a lasting impression. Whether you’re updating your LinkedIn profile, refreshing your company website, or creating business marketing materials, a high-quality headshot is essential for showcasing your professionalism and personality.

Dress for Headshot Success
Your clothing plays a big role in the look and feel of your headshot. When choosing what to wear for your portrait, follow these tips to look your best:

Dress to Impress: Wear clothing that reflects the professional image you want to convey. We recommend dressing one step more formal than what you normally wear to meet clients. So if you meet clients in business casual attire, maybe wear a jacket with no tie.

Choose Patterns Thoughtfully: Solid colors are ideal for headshots, as they keep the focus on your face. If you prefer patterns, go bigger. Avoid tiny stripes or checks to prevent visual distractions. We want viewers to look at your face and connect with you, not with your tie or chunky necklace.

Color Psychology Matters: Did you know colors can signal different traits? Here’s what different colors can communicate in a professional photo:

–Navy: Trust and reliability
–Black: Expertise and authority
–Red: Confidence and power
–Grey: Timeless and classic
–Green: Growth and harmony
–Orange: Creativity
–Yellow: Happiness
–Purple: Luxury
–White: Simplicity

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